Because in fact it is even worse. Who else do you need to please: The state, the government, your religion and the society. And when will you start satisfying your needs. And under which rules do you want to do it. Under the rules of your wife, your government or your religion.
I meet this guys everywhere in the world. Adult men who tell me that sex is not important. That men don’t have to fulfil their sexual phantasies and desires. Men who tell me that they don’t watch porn movies and even men who have bad feelings about themselves as they masturbate.