Monger in the normal definition is simply a dealer. Somebody who trades good.s A common use of the word monger can be found in connection with war. A war monger is a person who somehow deals with war.
They didn’t mind to sleep next to me in our bed and they also didn’t mind that I took advantage of that situation and fucked them. Sometimes I paid them for the sex but often I didn’t. That depended on the deal. As I am a monger as well and it depended what the deal was.
Being publicly advertised was something many wives and husbands didn’t liked. They feared to be recognised and wanted to have their business running secretly. Especially Da, Michael’s wife was successful to bring other wives to our bar. She was working as bar girl before and still had contacts to former bar girls who were married now.
As Katy also needed some advertising, I ended up putting another picture next to our TV were Gail’s picture already hang. I explicitly wanted to point out that she was a wife, so I asked her to give me a picture with her and her husband. I also asked her to wear something really sexy that makes her look like a bitch.
Understanding this phenomenon also helped me to understand why our visitors liked to call Vanta – Fat Man’s Girl. I often heard them talking to each other about fucking Fat Man’s Girl, Fat man’s girlfriend is sucking incredibly great, did you fuck Fat Man Girl already and so on. They preferred to call her Fat Man’s Girl or Fat Man’s girls friend instead just calling her Vanta.
What is true for both groups, expats and sex tourists, is that watching porn and masturbation is different to them then to other porn consumers. As the old cliche goes people who can’t get a woman have to masturbate.
Like with the food you consume, you just can’t eat only meat e.g. You also have to get noodles, bread and vegetables that help you to digest you the meat. As the brain is playing a very very import role for sex, you have to help him to digest too. This can be done in many ways, nevertheless masturbating is one of the most effective ways. I recently read a book about concentration were it was also explained that in order to be able to concentrate, you have to let your brain rest.
All the women had to be over 18 years and I never had an issue with that as our visitors well respected this rule. However the large number of private porn material established the fulfilment of another fantasy – masturbation.
It was something our visitors, independently if they were sex tourist or living in Pattaya, had to do once they saw Vanta fucking some other guys. Some wrote their name on her forehead while they filmed her sucking their dicks and other wrote something like “Billy was here “ on her belly and then drew an arrow from their writing pointing to her pussy.
Besides the friendship thing that gets monger high, another fantasy is to trade sex with everyone, without the borders of a relationship or even marriage. They come see my girlfriend and if they like her, they can buy her. Or at least her sexual services. Her blow jobs are even relatively cheap, while fucking is much more expensive, they can do it if they feel so. This gives mongers absolute freedom to use their money to satisfy their needs.