Masturbation and Sexual Energy

“Major has a romantic drink with sex tourist, before she serves him at his hotel”

I love sexual energy as it is clearing my body and mind. This helps me to heal and prosper. I gain a lot of creativity out of this sexual energy and once I am pumped up with it, I also can experience a more intensive day. I am more energised to do new things and experience a new adventure. Sexual energy helped me to get rip of my depression that I faced after my divorce and it helps me now through all kind of situations where I feel down.

Having said that I can create sexual energy only by watching sex. However I have to add, that once I masturbate my body is creating much more energy. Physical stimulation to my penis is drastically increasing the sexual energy production. This is true weather I jerk off by my self or if e.g. Vanta is massaging my penis. The energy level goes up a lot. So what is the difference? Or, why should I not ask my wife to jerk me off? Why do I want to do this by my self?

This is an important point, as many women have difficulties to understand it. They are surprised that their man wants to masturbate like a school boy even he has a woman. The reason is easy. By masturbating a man is in full control of his sexual energy stimulation. Even it is great when we get touched, blown or fucked by a woman, it is much harder to control the sexual energy that is floating through our body.

Now women actually like it when things get out of control as everything is more emotional and everyone experience deeper feelings. Men also like it, but they hate the down side of it – loosing control. Because loosing control means normally quicker and more intensive orgasm, which consequently means shorter sex and longer resting period.